she & they is an ongoing collection of raw stories about the lesbian experience, focusing on stories from women-loving-women, or lesbian-identifying nonbinary people. It is scary to tell our stories, especially when the majority of women and nonbinary-loving-women are fetishized and persecuted against in different ways than homosexual men. My goal with this project is to give a voice to those who are not being heard and let them share whatever it is they need others to know about their experiences with the life of being and word “lesbian.”